Women are not all the same. And so much the better! Each has its particularities, its character traits and its unique side. Some skin color, height, weight or whatever. Besides, remember this: it is possible for everyone to be a sensual woman , provided of course that you want it.
There is a saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So my dear, let’s see together how to expose this part of you. This can have a noticeable effect on your relationship. But it will be beneficial above all for yourself. Let’s see this together.
What is sensuality?
First let’s draw a line under two myths. First, being a sensual woman does not mean being vulgar. And secondly, sensuality is not necessarily linked to sex as others claim.
“Sensuality means anything related to all forms of sensation caused by the five senses (hearing, sight, smell, taste, touch)” Wikipedia tells us. It reminds me of artist Ne-Yo’s title “Miss Independent” . You might find it a bit cliché but as he puts it, “there’s something about the way she moves, talks, something about her that can’t be described”. Well that’s what real sensuality is, above all something that you feel.
In principle, no universal criterion exists on sensuality even if we sometimes have a mental image. Shy women can be seen as sensual as well as those who express strong self-confidence. You can be sensual unintentionally or intentionally.
But if you want my opinion I would tell you that it is good to know that we have an effect! And as Ne-Yo also mentions there are small details
How to be a sensual woman?
Consciously choosing to become a sensual woman is above all a desire to indulge yourself. This is an additional benefit that makes you more distinguished.
Why not start with your beautiful face?
Look at yourself in the mirror. You are a beautiful woman, the first person you have to convince is yourself!
And although makeup can emphasize certain features, know that the essential is already there. Start by appreciating yourself without pageantry. At any age one of the best assets is your smile. But in a broader sense because you don’t have to show your teeth if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Look at yourself and smile at least with your eyes you will see it feels good. And it will also help you to better receive other people’s eyes. From there, the rest will only be accessory according to your tastes. Lipstick, eyeliner, hat… You are spoiled for choice, but also remember that not making a choice is also a choice…
Let’s go down a bit now
Your body… He too you must learn to appreciate him whatever your morphology. Learn to look at it without criticism. Don’t try to hide it under loose clothes.
Be careful, I’m not saying that to be a beautiful and sensual woman you have to undress. Just see yourself as you are because the more you look away the less you will accept yourself.
Choose outfits you want to wear rather than clothes you think you deserve. Sheer lingerie isn’t just for models and curves don’t make you hideous.
And if you really have trouble accepting your physical appearance, don’t keep this evil inside of you. Many solutions exist nowadays, the following point is an effective and free first step.
Accept compliments and know how to play with them
It’s a small thing, but it’s very important. When you get a compliment, you deserve it! Do not look any further even when you know full well that the gesture is not selfless. Don’t ask yourself the question, just settle for a polite thank you.
If the same compliment comes from a different person then you have identified an asset. Being a sensual woman also means knowing what her strengths are and highlighting them when desired. Do you have nice legs? Why deprive yourself of highlighting them?
Also do not refuse high heels to avoid a “pretty buttocks”. If however the behavior is derogatory put things in their place unequivocally.
However, make the difference between “blue looks good on you” and “I love your T-Shirt”. In one case the compliment is intended for you, in the other it may be a wish to buy.
Take care of yourself or find someone to do it
Do not try to be a sexy woman to be sensual, be above all neat. Your hair, your hands, your feet… Appreciate taking care of yourself and you may observe that this fulfillment is communicative.
But even before rushing to a salon or institute, start by getting enough rest. Also I invite you to test mediation at least once. Put aside the a priori and you will discover the benefits of letting go of negative emotions without even trying to forget them.
The camera loves you
Now that we have seen simple elements already present in your daily life, let’s see some more advanced techniques.
A session with a professional photographer is a great way to discover or rediscover the seductive woman in you. To do this, choose a service provider for whom you will have good feedback on the artistic direction. Ideally through someone who has already called this person.
The boudoir style is the one most associated with sensuality but if you are not used to photos a portrait session is already very good. You are in a relationship? Do this together you might enjoy.
Make way for the dance! What better way to awaken the senses after all? Dance can provide you with posture, balance, gait, help you adapt your rhythm and better perceive spaces. At an advanced level this discipline also teaches you how to capture attention. It is also very practical for controlling your breath, and for reducing the risk of panic attacks.
Among the most sensual dances are pole dancing, as well as belly dancing, and practicing these dances does not make you unseemly women. However, if you are looking for an alternative, I suggest kizomba. Here is a video if you don’t know yet:
To be more sensual, it is important to maintain some self-esteem at all times. This is a process that can take time but is usually very beneficial.
There is no harm in gradually training at home. In addition to smiling, you can talk in front of your mirror if that helps. Don’t put yourself down for your negatives. Instead, pick yourself up and turn it all into something wonderful.
For that, also consider reading because to accept yourself you sometimes have to understand yourself and to achieve this you have to take a step back, question yourself. A book does not judge you, it gives you food for thought. Remember, however, that it is the actions that make the changes. Here are 2 titles that I recommend:
Let’s talk about desire
Yes in this article I told you that sensuality is not necessarily linked to a sexual aspect and I would like to end by indicating that it is not devoid of it for all that.
A sensual woman is fully aware of who she is but also of what she wants and assumes it once again. The simple act of glancing at a person who attracts us and maintaining it can be a mark of sensuality.
Try it you will see. Observe a person you like and say in your head “I want you”. Words are important don’t think “I like you” or “not bad”. Have an assumed impulse. If you get a look back, don’t linger more than 2 seconds then move on.
If one day you do this, especially come back and share on this blog the feeling you have felt. Being a sensual woman is a choice that is assumed. So, take your courage in both hands and go for it, not with your head down, but with your shoulders well erect. Do it for yourself but know that it can also be a magic ingredient after a few years as a couple. It’s also a great way to get over a breakup and move on .
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